The Man I Married...

Those of you that know me, know that I am not a mushy girl.  I am not super emotional.  I don't show public displays of affection. In fact, some people wonder how Bit actually came to be.  That being said...

The Man I Married...
The man I married has his faults- don't they all?  He is the kind of guy that never listens the first time to anything that I say.  Never!  Sometimes, I ask him if it is a requirement that I get mad at him before he does something after I have asked him a million times to do it.

The man I married has hurt me- haven't they all?  There have been times, though few and far between,  that I look in the mirror and wondered, "Who did I end up with and why did I do this to myself?"

The man I married loves his kids-  not all of them are like that.  I have seen this man hold a crying baby in one hand and clean a scraped knee with the other.  I have seen him grow from a new father scared to touch his NICU baby boy to a Daddy in total control in PICU when they are running a code on his child.


The man I married fights for what he wants- they all aren't like that either, are they??  Through the process of adopting Biscuit, Josh and I took on a rather large agency. We cooperated with the State investigation and caused this agency- the one that was placing children at risk to lose it's 3.9 million dollar contract with the State.  No more babies will have to worry...

The man I married is giving, caring and kind- I know that they all aren't like that!  I can tell you that most men, wouldn't be willing to do what he has done and place his own life on hold to give a kidney to a sweet,  little princess and never have a second guess. He never thought twice. 

So, now that you know more about Josh. It is my sincere pleasure to tell you that he was approved today to be the donor for a darling three year old Princess (although she may be 4 before she actually gets his kidney).  When he told me the news, I heard pride in his voice.  Of course, he is scared. In fact, he is terrified. But, he won't back down.  We, as a family, are about to embark on another crazy ride.  I know that it is going to have a wonderful outcome for everyone involved.  The word hero keeps coming up, when people talk to him about this adventure... he keeps saying he isn't a hero, he is just doing what any normal person would have done.... I don't think he realizes that most people aren't cut from the same cloth he is.  But, I guess we can keep it our little secret :)